Events on yesterday

Pchum Ben Day:

First in my opinion, I won’t be able to write this events down or publish but after that think again and again. In the same there’s another event has happened to me, and I must remember or recorded in my site. Even though, it's good and bad things together happening in the same day. Although, activities make me so surprised and it’s good to notify. At lease I could reminding myself what was happened in the past right? It's happened as following:

This is a picture that we took during ceremony conducting

On Friday, September 22nd 2006. It’s the last day of our “Pchum Ben Day”. The Pchum Ben is a religious ceremony in September when everyone remembers the spirit of dead relatives. For fifteen days, people in Cambodian villages take turns bringing food to the temples or pagodas. On the fifteenth and final day, everyone dresses in their finest clothing to travel together to the pagodas. Families bring overflowing baskets of flowers, and children offer food and presents to the monks. Everyone says prayers to help their ancestors pass on to a better life. According to Khmer belief, those who do not follow the practices of Pchum Ben are cursed by their angry ancestors.

First thing, I went to the “The Wat Ampé Phnom” with my personal doctor and his family. Hmmm, it’s very interesting and good place for all visitors to visit. It’s a kind a bit famous place in our tour also.

We’re all traveled for more an hour to reach there, because it’s a bit late.....because, we were left home late too. Ampé Phnom has very nice view and beauty nature resource as Temples, big trees, and mountains etc.... So cool and fresh air.........we like such as this kind nature places. After the ceremony finished we’re staying for another couple hours then back to Phnom Penh. Our tour car reached to Phnom Penh around 16:00 the Bong Pet dropped me at my house then straightly to his home after that.

The travel no very long but it still make me feeling so exhausted as a person who has no power inside. After rest for an hour I decided better go to clinic then staying at home coz I knew my health is not good that why I need an expert taking care of me. My mom, also agree with my idea, then she’s allowed me went & sleep that clinic for a night.

When staying there a bit lonely, that why I was think once of my friend. First I SMS him, no reply, 30 minutes later I call him again “still no one answer my call”. It makes me wonder with that events. Still I make myself be cool down, then trying sms and call him again. There’re still no any responded at all. And then I stop of my trying, coz of tried and felt not well to, so I went to bed a bit early.

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SMS

Second thing, the clock pointed above 21:00 pm at the night time, my phone start rang of SMS receiving, I woke up and read the message it’s short meaning with strength number that never know as “Hi, can you buy cell card $5 for me?” The meaning was short and on any meaning at all, I felt so strange but not very much of thinking just reply “Why do I need to give you? I never know you, how come?”

After I sent my message for a couple minutes later, there’s another replied from same number said “I am Bora, your friend my phone has no balance now can you give me then?” Thought a lone {Oh my god, how can I give you, its night time, and now I staying who’s care of me}. Even, you’re my friend I can’t give either. Otherwise, I never trust anyone easily, it’s a bit funny for me, why there’s someone introduced he’s my friend and requested for $5 cell card how can I believed him? Lastly, I replied “Don’t kidding you’re not BORA té, I just call him but no answer. I’m not a stupid person you easy kidding with.... Tell me why you have my number. Don’t disturb me again ok? I’d say I don’t know YOU either. Just deleted my number from your phone, don’t keep it”.

Although, I decided must be call and tell him directly again. I know when I asking him a bit anger as “I received twice times SMS from your number, just tell who are you? Why you disturb me like this? We never know each other either. What reasons you did this?” You know what he replied? “Bong I am Bora, may I have $5 for my phone, now i’m a bit drunk at my home town, my phone is .......... and my name BORA don’t you remember me?” After listen, I replied “NO....no, you’re lying, I know BORA well and he never ask for money from straithly like you, special thing his voice is not same as you don’t disturb me and I don’t care who you are either, bye”. Then off my phone immediately with there’re many questions in my mind.

I was wondering as he said, he’s my friend but his voice is different so far and his character also. What this strange person need from need from me? Later on, I decided send other message ask BORA again still no replied. Thought alone “let’s don’t be headache because this crazy.........I’ll ask you again tomorrow. Who you give my number to and why he knew me well?” I’m not happy with this event happening with me either. It’s recorded in my mind now, so I must clear up with you. And this morning I call to BORA again asked him of the following question. But he still said with funny as last night “That person was him not other”. I still thinking that it was not true? Why you need lied me again? I knew you almost 2-years. So your voice, your character and other you did, it’s recorded in my mind. How do I believe easily my dear? I’m pretty sure, I knew everything related you as I knew very........very clearly how many my finger do I have?

I can suggested, you must give my number to other friend, then he testing with me. But you afraid of my anger then this that why you accepted “A disturb person last night was you”. However, I must know this from your mouth one day. You have no rights lied me té my friend, I really hate someone who like in lied me. As I told you many times, the friendship to me it’s fill full meaning to me. And I don’t need any things beside honestly only. Why you can’t give just this??????????????

Hi everyone :-)

My father:

Hi dear, welcome back read thru my site, I was so busy & tired coz of my dad was seriously SICK for several weeks. He had a bad problem with his stomach and did an operation. We’re so concern about his health & his secure, but we felt a bit better after got successful from and operation. However, he has to staying almost two – weeks at the hospital. My mother has taken care of him for 24 hours and I went there every night after working time. Although, coz two of us felt was very...........very exhausted.

Sorry dad, we’re not complained actually....my dear, just would expressing all our feel out only, and it could reduce a bit from stress and tried from all of those things, don’t you think so? . And now we feeling much.......much better coz my father went out from hospital safety, and his health getting much better too. Thanks gods,

Moreover, I thought, there’re might be some of you miss me and some might be not, BUT I really miss you mén.....tén dear,

By the way, today as several weeks, my present here just for work and class work. And miss you that entire why? Now a day, I would like to share all of a small idea as below. Please read it as your lesson learn or fun whatever as your wish.........

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And what do think to this?

... That sometimes, communication is a lost cause? There are some people out there with whom your communication paths will never intersect. Oh my dear! It's like, why do I even bother? Since everyone was born with a 'I must be right. End of discussion. Period.' mindset (as much as they want to continue being in denial), and they do not have instilled in them a mechanism for compromising or comprehending, I don't see why anyone should spend any effort trying to bring across any information at all.

All those talky talks about effective communication is just pure bull, especially when your audience is so goddamn self-righteous that you'll just about make all the angels in heaven want to rip their wings out and chew on them.... That you should really try to utilize the stuff that came with your package? Like your hands, your legs, your brain, your common sense, your initiative?

However fantastically advanced you might be, compared to your fellow species, the fact remains that you were bestowed with the above in order for YOU to utilize them YOURSELF. Why make it mandatory for someone to do something for you, something that you can easily do your-self, but simply refuse to, just because you're a big fat lazy pig?

If you're not going to use your hands to feed yourself, use your brain to think for yourself, use your legs to walk around yourself, and then may I please suggest that you surrender them to someone else who will make better use of them? Otherwise, just shut up and do it yourself already.... That the amount of lamer on earth is increasing exponentially as time quickly and surely passes us by?

Thanks you....

Love & Friendship

Dear friends, I would be please sharing this very small but interesting idea, please keep it as ur lesson learn or it can be relese all stress from ur mind while you feeling tight up with somone/something.

Enjoy & Cheers!!!

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Sweet words are easy to say, Sweet things are easy 2 buy, BUT!!! Sweet people are difficult to find..............

Life ends when U stop dreaming, hope ends when U stop believing, love will be ends when U stop caring, friendship ends when U stop sharing. So share this with whom ever U considers a friend...........

To love without condition, to talk without intention loves is also to give without reason and to care without expectation, is the heart of a true friend, forward this to all the people whom u consider as your true friend. Otherwise, friendship is very interesting

Don’t forget to send it back to ME. Have nice day ever!

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Sunday

Hi dear all: How are you getting on now? Hope everyone are doing well ok?

From the rest of busy times, thought I should not come here and sitting in front of computer again. But the reason of my coming coz I missing you all my dear friends...... ha..ha. ... I feeling every headache, I don’t know what’s happen with me? Or I should better go to see doctor? However, I feel a bit better now!

As very often I told you, I am having a weekend class beside my work. You may wonder why I chose these two days. Both Sat & Sun is my class week, but I almost finish now you know. I will be finished early 2007 next year, hey..........cheers for me, see I can do it “after heard working so long”.

Today, I had last only half day “morning time”, after that I came back from University to office, to clear up my office’s work. You might thought “Is that girl crazy or what, that why she make her self busy & crazy with work all time like. My dear I would say, I am not but I have to do... if not so I still do it in the next day right? Who’s gonna to help you than “Just only U”. I just finished very busy packet over 150 envelops of office’s publication to the different NGOs, Diplomatic mission and government official etc.... now I done my works heyyy....

Even I feel a bit tired, but I feeling so happy too because all thing going well and I could finished another important work that BOSS give me last Friday “Although he would like it to be don’t early next week, but I clear up earlier”.

Moreover, I really work always coming new never stop but at lease it’s clear up one by one coz I hard working right? Otherwise, in my culture always teach us that “Plz do what you want to do... or do what you must to do {don’t keep it for tomorrow}, because everyone knew tomorrow never comes!!! that why?

Ok I think, that’s all I want to say for today. I don’t much word to say but just would like to hi & tell you what’s going on here.

I’ll be back soon if I can, and promised will bring you something new....... thanks for your time dear,

Cheers – Sroh :-)